The word puja (pronounced "pooja") comes from Hinduism and Buddhism, and literally means "An act of adoration, honor, respect, or worship."

Our Pujas:

When we use the word to describe an event, we mean a gathering for celebration in which we practice tuning into our love for ourselves and for others, and expressing it in safe and nurturing ways.  You might call it a "heart-centered connection gathering."

This can take many forms, but typically consists of about one-quarter solo practices, one-quarter group practices, and one-half partnering practices.  We will suggest breathing, meditation, eye-gazing, and touch in these practices to help deepen your awareness of the connection with each person you encounter.  Typical modes of touch include dancing, back and neck rubs, hugs, hand-on-heart, feeding each other treats, etc.

Every person is always empowered to decline to participate or negotiate to modify the suggestions.  "No" means no, and "stop" means stop at all times.  The facilitators intend to help everyone feel safe, comfortable and respected.

Nudity and genital touch will never be suggested unless specifically stated in the invitation (what we call an advanced puja.)

Typically, men (or those who identify with assertiveness) will rotate to encounter 10-12 women (or those who identify with receptivity) during the evening.  Most of our pujas are intentionally not gender balanced.  Therefore, you may occasionally work with a person of your same gender (a very valuable and rich experience, highly recommended.)

Couples may choose to stay together for the partnering practices, but we always recommend that they try separating from each other and rotating with the singles.  This helps reinforce the universal love (as opposed to personal) and can provide a wonderful feeling of joy and enthusiasm when couples reconnect at the end of the evening.

If you've never experienced a puja before, we encourage you to try at least one.  If you have worries or apprehension, please feel free to call Desiree at 831-588-7461 or William at 760-489-4058 to discuss your concerns.

Pujas by Others:

Other facilitators may have a different meaning for the word, or structure their events differently.  If you've never experienced the facilitator, or if you're at all worried about what will take place, we recommend that you phone or email the organizer to ask about the structure and discuss your concerns.

Love fulfills its destiny simply by being itself.
        -- Alan Cohen